What the fetish means for men may be different than for women
I've been thinking on this one for quite awhile now...
It is true that most of those who have the smoking fetish are men. After all, the smoking fetish is generally (but not exclusively) about watching women who smoke. Maybe it's also to do with the percentage of ladies online vs men but I do believe that is shrinking.
So what are the main differences between men who have the fetish and women?
Well, as I've said for the most part, it's about watching women smoke although I'm sure there is an element the opposite way too.
Ignoring the fact that some women do like watching men smoke, I've found that women who have the fetish tend to fall into one or both of the following caterogies:
1) Bisexual and Lesbian - enjoying for mainly the same reasons as us guys the visual image of another lady smoking
2) Enjoys the power/control kick - loves being the centre of attention through her smoking
Of course, the holy grail (which I have found on occasion) is the combination of both.
But practically speaking, the reason why I think there are more guys that have the fetish is that we are generally a lot more turned on by visual stimulation; pornography is often aimed at us. We get turned on a lot more by looking at form and body more than women do. So since the smoking fetish is often about watching (at first anyway) a lady smoke, that could be why the fetish manifests itself differently for women than for men.
What do you think?
Answers on a back of a postcard or posted here please..